Sometimes we need to look at the world around just as the children do.
With all expectancy and filled with the never ending curiosity and those ceaseless questions of “Why?”
After The Rains
When my two were little more than toddlers, I began taking them outdoors for short nature walks.
Just around the house or gardens. Looking for squirrels, rabbits, deer, butterflies, flowers in bloom. Yes, worms…. when the pickings were slim!
One day after a solid week of rain, the sun showed its face in the afternoon.
I bundled the two up, slapped their boots on and out we went. Quickly.
There along the fence, our lovely climbing roses looked just a bit weather bedraggled. Rain drops were dripping down the petals.
The older one piped up and asked, “Why does the rose cry, Mommy?”
For a moment, I was speechless.
What do you say to a 3 year old?! I explained though it did look a lot like the rose was crying, really it was the rain that made it wet. It seemed to satisfy her at the time.
Perhaps I could have said, It was crying for sheer gladness the Sun was peeking out. But, no I stuck to reality.
However, her words have never left me. And always right after a rain and I see a rain wet, dripping rose, those words return to my mind.
I wonder …. about the tears of a rose, and “Why does the rose cry, Mommy?”
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Beautiful photo… I agree on the ‘why?’ question
The tragedy happens when they stop asking why
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thank you. I agree.
Many times I look around seeing ‘too-busy, distracted faces. The joy, happiness, imagination and wonder gone. The curiosity ‘worn away’ by life’s many, many challenging rules and people.
I see this every day I step foot into my classroom. And then I share MY curiosity, wonder, imagination, and creativity.
And hope its enough. 🙂
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Well… Every one who has curiosity adds to the ‘bank’, so to speak
I am having this struggle with my 13 year old son. He was immensely curious, and was a voracious reader. Then, he discovered smart phones, PS4 etc etc…
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darn phones!
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Wow. This, all of it, will stick.
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my deepest thanks David.
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Why does the rose cry? That is so lovely. The picture is lovely too. I will remember this. Thank you.
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hi Sherry, thank you so much. I’m glad you enjoyed the post today. I’m trying…. to aim for more photos that ‘stir the soul’. A hard order to fill. 🙂 cheers, Debi
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Truly beautiful.
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thank you Nico
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What a breathtaking shot. Another stunner! Oh, that sweet child of yours. Never heard it said that way, but oh so moving. Another HSP? Totally love. Thank you, Debi. I am wishing I were a better painter so that I could abstract these without laughing at the final painting! 💜💜💜
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thanks Laura! she came up with some dillys… she is very good at Design, naturally, no formal training. but is 100% more left brained than I am. 🙂
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😊👍🎨
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Gorgeous photo…and loved this story. The world is pretty amazing when seen through the eyes of a child!
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thanks Charlie!
yes, that is why, allowing them the tools, the art gear to create freely… is so important!
I’m on board with that 110%!!!!
and July, World Watercolor Month is around the corner!
lets help support kids’ art everyone 🙂
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Spread the good word! ❤️It’s been tough to get folks to contribute. Hoping that will change when the month begins!
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ok! will do 🙂
started last night with alot of Pinterest boards, did you see them yet?
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Yes!! Yay! That’s awesome!! 😃Thanks for all the shout outs!
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Although this has nothing to do with the beautiful photograph, I have always loved this story from my own daughter when she was very little. I had planted a small flower garden and she had helped me. One flower I had planted was snapdragons. When they bloomed, we went outside to look at them, and she said “Oh mommy, looking at the roaring lions!” I’ve never forgotten that. The wonderful way children have of expressing themselves – sometimes just so perfect. Snapdragons=roaring lions!
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that is wonderful! their minds – are still so innocent, pure, creative, full of wonder and beautiful expressions ! 🙂 thank you Jesse !
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wonderful photo, dear Debi, maybe not the rose was crying but the sky. Your photo is very sensuous (just thinking about Omar, hehe) kind regards Mitza
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thank you … yes, many reasons, I could have given here for the tears, …
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:))
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Wow! Such a gorgeous photograph. You have a very good memory…I wish I remembered all the cute things my children said long ago.
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thank you Louise! that was just the one thing that …. stuck. Most of the rest sort of blurs LOL
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Kids are so adorable!
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they can be! and of course they have their other, ‘special’ moments too. that are just as memorable, which I can smile at Now. 🙂
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Awww, that’s so sweet. 🙂
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🙂
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Beautiful rose photos and such a lovely story Debi. Out of the mouths of babes comes such insightful surprises. I’m sure that i will see crying roses and roaring lions in the future when I photograph these flowers. Cheers, Beth
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thank you Beth! their language, well, really how they see the world… is so wonderful. It is a lovely thing to cherish.
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Another cute and beautiful thing my daughter said once when she was quite young, was when I had made something new for dinner. She tasted it, then said to me, “It’s not that I don’t like it, it’s just that I don’t like the TASTE of it.” I think somehow she felt that might have spared me hurt feelings or something, and I tried very hard not to laugh – it was just so darn adorable!
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too cute!
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I love your photo and your story! oh my, I love those moments, what a memory and thank you for sharing it with us. I love to get little snippets of you, about you.
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thanks M!! perhaps.. more sharing 🙂 cheers, Debi
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So Beautiful, in So many ways!!.❤️
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thank YOU Joanne!
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Delicatessen ……. A lovely gift for my eyes! ❤ Thank you, thank you very much, Debi!
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thank you, very pleased you enjoyed the crying rose post!
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